We can not at live together before marriage.?

The best answer that was chosen for my previous question was to live together before marriage.

We are both christians and our parents too are. Its against our belief to co-habit before marriage. We can not be a disgrace to our faith and an embarrassment to our parents. That is why we can never live together before we get married. We have never had sex, it has to wait untill marriage. Living together will be a temptation that may lead to pre-marital sex which we both don't want. So to me the best answer can not be to live together. Please answer my question having this in mind.

We can not at live together before marriage.?

Well, you don't really leave much choice for people to answer! Basically you're saying give me an answer, so long as it's this.

You've made up your mind, so why post a question?

We can not at live together before marriage.?

Could never consider promising life to someone having never lived or slept with them.....too much you dont know about eachother......madness

We can not at live together before marriage.?

What is the question?

We can not at live together before marriage.?

I'd apologise to God %26amp; just move in together. Im sure God would be changing with the times, as we all do. You dont have to lose your faith just because you have sex or live together. Sex is natural. There is no way i would stop for someone i cant see.

We can not at live together before marriage.?

I just took the time to check your profile and can't tell what you are referring to about a previous question. Other than you have some questions from a week ago. Since you want us to further refine our answers, could you please add additional details here.

By the way, I agree with waiting until marriage, but would like you to let us know what you want for an answer. What is your question about living together before marriage?

We can not at live together before marriage.?

I personally don't see living together before marriage as a good thing. I am Christian also! I feel it's wrong and ruins so many good things. When you live together before getting married there is no excitement after the wedding, you come home to the same thing you left before getting married. Don't ruin a good thing, wait til you are married before living together. You obvisouly fee this way too! In my opinion WAIT IT OUT! You will be glad you did!!

We can not at live together before marriage.?

be happy that here you have him\her and pray and be happy for the day of marriage and the happyness that will come to you

We can not at live together before marriage.?

Sounds like you need to just talk to him. Not knowing where you live, maybe that's not appropriate, but in USA, a woman and man can be open about their intentions with each other. My husband and I were for a year before we got married, we knew we would get married, before it was an official proposal. So, can you just talk to him, can you write him a letter and ask? Good luck, sounds like a difficult situation. If you love him, you won't be happy with someone else, just for the sake of being married

We can not at live together before marriage.?

What was the previous question to which cohabitation was selected as the best answer? Because without knowing what THAT question was, I cannot answer THIS question (since you've asked for another answer to it that does not include cohabitation, but doesn't restate the question).

We can not at live together before marriage.?

Than get married.

We can not at live together before marriage.?

Liz, if you have any doubts about this man or this relationship, WHATSOEVER, then don't do it.

It's better to be safe than sorry.

Hindsight is 20/20...I'd hate for you to wake up in 2 or 3 years and realize that you're unhappy and you'd wish you'd listened to your instincts.

We can not at live together before marriage.?

What is the question?

We can not at live together before marriage.?

so have a quick ceremony and get married I have no idea what you want us to tell you

We can not at live together before marriage.?

sorry, but you should have included your first question.

you could co-habitat before marriage if there were another female roomie to keep you on the up and up.

if you are Christians and are going to get married...then you have prayed and you know it is God's will for you to be together...knowing this...though I don't know your question...you should get married if you know it is God's will. Everything else will work itself out for you if you remain in His will.

be cool...

We can not at live together before marriage.?

I'm sorry, what was the question? I just wanted to congratulate you for waiting until marriage to have sex. Good for you! It's a tough road, but so worth the wait. In the Bible, James says the testing of your faith creates perseverance. "Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything (James 1:4)." And waiting for marriage was just about the toughest thing I have ever experienced. The world takes sex for granted, until it is withered into a self-gratifying act, losing the mystery, love,physical and spiritual union (within marriage) that God had intended.

Out of curiosity, how old are you? My husband and I got married when we were 20 and 21. To most, that seems way too young. Trust in God. Ask him for his will to be done in his good timing. While you are waiting, do not sit around agonizing over how hard the wait is, but prepare yourselves for marriage. My husband and I made rules for ourselves, and told our parents what the rules were. We also read books on marriage (The Five Loves, His Needs Her Needs) and had Bible studies. We dated for two and a half years before we got married, to ensure God intended for us to be together...marriage is NOT something to be taken lightly; it's a life-long commitment between you, your husband, and God at the top of the triangle.

I would also like to ask, why are you taking advice from random people via the internet over your life-long beliefs? Me, and the rest of the people on here are indescribably ignorant in comparison to God's word. So again, trust in him, and not the worldly advice of strangers. God bless.

We can not at live together before marriage.?

Yes, you are right, whether you are a Christian or not, living together before you get married is definitely no! If he decided not to get married later on, then you will be at the losing end.

Getting married with someone you know for only one year is consider quite short a period, best is to wait for another two years. Get to know him better, give him time to save for marriage since he does not have a stable job, maybe let him settle down with a proper job first.

Since you are so eager to get married soon, talk to him about it. Let me teach you a trick: since you said there are other suitors interested in you, tell him that Mr xxx proposed to you, and he still waiting for your answer. If he really loves you, he will definitely confessed his love for you and might even proposed to you. But give him time, maybe both of you can get registered legally first, go through customary later.

I hope this answers your question. And wishing you a blissful marriage.

We can not at live together before marriage.?

I looked at your other question, and you did get an answer. You asked if you were being impatient, and the answer was yes. If you want a better answer, you have to give us more information. It's obvious that English is not your native language, so it would help to know where (in the world) you live. It would also help to know how old you are, and how old the man is. You also claimed that others have proposed to you, or are seriously interested in you. How old are they? You are getting answers from Americans/Canadians/English and that isn't where you live. Being Christian is fine, but it doesn't explain to us why you are so desperate to make your choice right now. We might understand your desperation better if we knew where you lived. You aren't getting very good answers because-- while this might be the most important thing on your mind, we can't read your mind. We can only read what you type in as a question, and you haven't given us much to work with. I married when I was 24 and she was 22. We dated for three years, until she was out of college (to be an elementary teacher). To us, you sound like a woman of 35 who is desperate to have a child before she's too old to have one. But I don't think that's true. Tell us more of the truth.