I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

My parents are divorced and my dad lives in another country. He obviously doesn't want me to live with him (he told me that). And I don't like him, so that's fine. BUT I also hate my mother and I can't stand living with her!!!!! What should I do??? Only two years later I'm graduating and then go to college. BUT 2 years is a really really long time for me!! I can't help it!!

I don't love my mother (nor my father) and I don't want to live with her! What choice do I have??? (my grandparents live in country and I wouldn't live with them either). Can anyone tell me how to deal with everything? I'm very depressed... PLEASE HELP!!! ;-(

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

Just try to bear with it for the time being. Find/Make new friends for support. You only have 2 years to go and then you are off to college.

Maybe the situation isn't as bad as you think or make it out to be. There may be things you don't know about the situation so try to stay calm and work it out till you are a couple years older.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

try to live in a hostel

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

that sounds like a bad dilemma

do you have ANY other family you could or would want to live with? uncles/aunts/older brother/sister?

or maybe you have a friend you could stay with?

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

im sorry you are going through this. things will be ok.

two years sees like a long time but it really is not.

spend your time keeping busy. start a hobby that keeps you busy so you are out of the house more . spend time with friends. soudns like you dont have siblings. once you start school you can go away and in the meantime start looking at places you want to go . it will give you somethign to definetley look forward to. good luck

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

do what all the other teen-queens do. get a boyfriend, have sex, get pregnant, get married, have your husband cheat on you, he leaves and you have to raise the baby by yourself... or you could just stick it out for a couple of years.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

Sit down with your parent(s) and tell them exactly how you feel and that you are very depressed and work something out with them. If you are a minor, then you can not legally be on your own. If you are a legal adult, and you are that unhappy, then just LEAVE if that will make you happy.

If you are a minor, then maybe consider spending as little time at home as you possibly can without getting into trouble.

All in all, I always recommend just speaking with your people in an honest, calm and serious manner. I am sure your parents don't want you to suffer emotionally and will try to figure out how to make everyone happy in some way.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

Well, if you feel this way, i don't blame you, what if you stay in a dormitory, you can ask your parent to provide some financial support,hope you soon find someone to share your problem with, good luck.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

That's a tough situation and I'm really sorry you're in it. Do you have any friends' families that you would be able to stay with? If not, the best advice I can give you is to talk out your feelings with your mom. Just come out with everything that is bothering you and why you find it you two don't get a long. This is probably a hard time for your mom as well and she might enjoy being able to open up to you. Living there right now might be tough, but if you have no other option, think of the positive side-you have a roof over your head/ a place to stay until you go to college. Just take everything in stride and work hard so that you can reach that goal and go out on your own so you can make your own decisions. I hope things get better for you!

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

Hon, contact The Department of Children's Services, the phone numbers in the book, and talk to them about your dilemma, they might find you a place you can stay in until you can graduate. Cheer up! Life can only get better for you. Have a great day and don't worry, everything will turn out fine for you hon.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

have you checked with a close frend and see if you could live with her and her parrents or have you checked in to seeing about a foster famely you can ask your consoler at school and she might be able to help place you some where you might like better

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

how old are you? you could move out and live mabe with friends or rent somewhere alone or with a roomate.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

I know you feel like you hate your mother, but that's not unusual for young girls. You'll find as you grow older your opinion will change as much of her opinion will begin to make sense.

It has been proved that at your age your reasoning has been severely compromised by the 'work in progress' state of your still developing brain. I know this sounds glib and a load of old rope, but it is true.

Hang in there for a couple of years until you've graduated, and if you still feel the same then move out. I think however by then your opinion of your mother will have changed.

Read the accompanying article, and get your mother to read it also, so you both can get some understanding of the problems you're both facing.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

I don't know what state you live it, but you may want to find out if your state allows minors to be emancipated. It's not easy, however. You will have to prove to a judge, in a court of law, that you have good reason to not be in your mother's custody anymore AND that you have a job and can support yourself. Just not liking your mother is NOT going to be a good enough reason for a judge to grant you emancipation.

Then, of course, there is always the marriage route. Although in most states you will need a parent's permission to get married under 18, once you are married, your husband technically has custody of you if you live in a state where they don't allow emancipation (Maryland), or you will automatically be considered emancipated in a state that allows it.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

It would appear that you are around 16 years old. So, given your story you don't have any choice except to live with your mother.

Maybe you and your mother could get mediation and work out the things that bother you about her. If you can't find a mediator, then a family counselor could help.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

GO TO CHILDHELP USA . Don't just leave. Try to get some help with your problem. Good luck.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

I didn't want to live with my family when I was your age either. And my 16 year old step daughter is shunning her family right now over no more reason than that I've told her she has chores to do.

The first thing you should do is realise that in the real world, running away from your problems is not an option. Take a look around you at the emo's and druggos and the pregnant teenagers and the guys with their heads in clouds of smoke. Take a look at the homeless on the street, and the prostitutes, and the wino's and the bums. All of those people are people who never learned to handle the real world and tried to run away from it. The awful truth is that in 99% of cases, the person running from their problems is at least half the cause of their problems, so wherever they go the problems follow. Where are you gonna run to next time? You can't run away from yourself!

Unless your mother or her man (if she has one) are seriously abusing you, there is no reason for you to go anywhere! Do you have a roof over your head, and warm clothes to wear, and a good education, and more food than you could ever hope to eat? Then you are more lucky than most of the children in this world, and you should be grateful.

Take it from somebody who doesn't have her parents in her life anymore, you miss them when you don't have them. Instead of looking for reasons to hate her and be away from her, try to find things you have in common, remember that she loves you and wants the best for you, and be grateful for what you have instead of always wanting more.

Try to make the best of the situation, and eventually it'll turn out okay.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

I've been there too. I had no choices and had to tough it out until graduation. It was hard, no social life, no dating. Wanted to run away but had no where to go. So, I studied hard in school, so that I would be able to get a good job when the time came. I didn't go to college right away. I was not prepared for dating..... when I finally was able to leave home. I was taken advantage of; "set up" and date raped. Had no one to confide in. So, I turned to God and he was there for me. Before God, I was contemplating suicide. Things are better now. But life is hard and you have to find a way to make the best of it.....to deal with the stress and pressure. God bless.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

I am sorry to know that you are in such a difficult situation, but it is a sad thing to see there are so many people out there hating their parents for whatever reasons. We should forgive them for they gave us a life to live in this world. Please let go that hatre in your heart . Life would be a lot more joyful if you do. Communication is vital in a good relationship, have you tried sitting down with your mum and explained each other 's thoughts calmly and not speculate what each other may think because that is when most misundersdanding happens . I made such mistake before and lost a friend and now I regret .

Although I have a good relationship with my mum but she lives faraway in another country, we could hardly see each other, maybe oneday when you are married or have kids you would understand how nice it would be to have a mum to be around. Please treasure what you've got for we never know how lonng we are gonna be around or them?!!! Just take everything easy and be happy!

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

Keep busy and time will pass.Save money so you can live somewhere else.You need to have a plan in action for the future.

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

okay it seems like you have a really big problem!

well if you dont like your mother (nor father nor grandparents)

find an aunt or uncle or cousin, you need to find someone to live with becuz being in that same house with your mother is obviously causing you soo much pain.

So what you need to do is get out and get away find someone that you think will take you in and treat you like a real family should.

And if none of that works talk to your mom and see why you hate her soooo much!

Sorry kid thats all i got up my sleeve!

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

well itz up 2 u if u wanna go if u do then find a job get enough money buy a house or somethin then leave but b4 dat tell ur mom

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

That is so awful. Why do you hate your mom so much? I can't believe your dad would act like that either. I'd never ever tell my kids they couldn't live with me!

I don't want to live with my mother. What should I do??

GO TO SOCIAL SERVICES AND ASKED TO BE PLACED IN FOSTER CARE FOR THE NEXT TWO YEARS THEY WILL TRY TO HELP YOU